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Your response to his turnaround was a little crowd-sourced. Your ideas about him shifted completely, just because he got in shape, looked destined backpage northern paterson escorts success, and started blowing cash on his looks. You can pretend that it was JUST the magic of attraction that was missing from the picture, but everything Erie Pennsylvania webcam horny you write suggests that you were influenced very dramatically not only by your own fickle tastes, but by also by the fickle tastes of your herd.
Also: What happened to your jerk boyfriend?
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I feel for. You know what gives me hope? The fact that he resisted the urge to keep torturing you, and resisted the urge to yell at you, and resisted the urge to dismantle your value system, just to make himself feel better.
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What kind of a career, what kinds of friends, what kind of a life, what state of grace could you achieve that might make you feel that way about yourself? Then find YOUR path.
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